EP 389: How To Feel Happy, Open & Fully Alive At Any Age.
What if the secret to staying young has nothing to do with age?
In this episode, I share why I call myself "48 years alive," what vitality really means, and the habits, beliefs, and perspectives that help me feel more energized, curious, and alive with every passing year.
I talk about self-respect, growth, energy, resilience, staying open to life, and why I believe you're never too old—and never behind—to become more of who you're here to be.
If you're ready to stop measuring your life by age and start measuring it by aliveness, this episode is for you.
EP 387: Journal Prompt That Changed My Life.
This is a compilation episode about journaling — not as a perfect practice, but as a place to meet yourself honestly.
Across these clips, I talk about why journaling has been one of the most powerful tools in my life for self-connection, self-trust, emotional clarity, and staying rooted in who I actually am. We get into the judgment people bring to journaling, why there is no “right way” to do it, how writing creates separation from the noise in your head, and why the real power is in the doing — not the re-reading.cute on the things they care about most, and how fear, uncertainty, identity, and capacity often sit beneath procrastination.
EP 385: The Identity Shift That Changes Everything.
In this Q&A episode, I answer three powerful questions about self-love, execution, and consistency.
I get into why self-love is far more than a feeling—it’s how you nourish yourself, speak to yourself, challenge yourself, tell yourself the truth, and protect what matters through boundaries.
I also share why so many people struggle to execute on the things they care about most, and how fear, uncertainty, identity, and capacity often sit beneath procrastination.
EP 383: Dr. Lorna Brudie: What Women Were Told About Hormones Was Wrong.
In this Microsode, I sit down with Dr. Lorna Brudie—a double board-certified gynecologic oncologist, women's hormone specialist, and Medical Director at Excel Medical to talk about the Women’s Health Initiative, the decades of confusion around hormone replacement therapy, and what happens when women are dismissed instead of investigated. But underneath all of it is something deeper: the danger of disconnecting from your body long enough that exhaustion, brain fog, anxiety, poor sleep, and burnout become “normal.”
EP 381: The Real Reason You Don’t Feel Confident.
This episode is about why confidence is not the starting point — it’s the result of how you treat yourself when life gets hard.
I break down what actually builds self-confidence: integrity, discipline, courage, self-respect, self-trust, and self-compassion. Not the soft version. The real version. The one that keeps you from abandoning yourself after a setback, breaking your own word, or turning one messy moment into an identity.
EP 379: You Know Who You Want To Become - So Why Aren’t You Acting Like Her?
In this compilation episode, I bring together some of the most important pieces of my work around the future self: how to build a real relationship with the person you’re becoming, how to use that relationship in daily decisions, and how journaling can help you get clear on your values, goals, limitations, and self-trust.
EP 377: You Know What To Do - So Why Aren’t You Doing It?
This Q&A episode is about knowing when you’re actually waiting for more information, and when you’re just stalling because you’re afraid to move.
I answer questions on career decisions, future self work, boundaries, and what it really means to stay connected to yourself while still showing up for others. The through-line is self-trust: knowing who you are, what matters to you, and where you’re betraying yourself by delaying, over-carrying, or overthinking.
EP 373: The Psychology Behind Every Winner Who FAILS.
Failure isn’t the problem. The meaning you attach to it is.
In this episode, I break down why most people don’t actually lose because they fail — they lose because they turn failure into identity. I walk through how I’ve navigated this in my own career, and the mindset shifts that allowed me to keep going even when the results didn’t match the effort.
This is about separating who you are from what happened, staying grounded in your values, and building a relationship with failure that actually moves you forward. The difference between controlling others versus taking responsibility for your own standards. And why the lack of boundaries doesn’t just affect your life — it quietly poisons your relationships through resentment and unspoken tension.
EP 365: Why You Keep One Foot in the Old Life
This Q&A episode is about outgrowing what used to fit — careers, cities, habits, even versions of you — and how to make a true move without needing the whole next chapter mapped out.
I answer three core questions: how to leave something you worked hard to build, how to steady yourself when you’re emotionally activated, and what journaling gives you in hard seasons that nothing else does. The through-line is self-respect: risk tolerance, standards, and the ability to take your foot off first base when it’s time.
EP 364: You’re Not Burnt Out — You’re Scared to Handle More.
In this episode, I break down what personal growth actually feels like when you’re in it — the pressure, the self-talk, the decision-making, and the nervous system stretch that comes with becoming more.
If you’re in a season where your capacity is being tested, this is about learning the difference between growth and burnout. Between discomfort and misalignment. Between playing safe and expanding into the next level version of yourself.
EP 361: What’s Blocking Your Next Level
I didn’t plan this episode. It intercepted me. A detour. A pause. A moment where I chose trust instead of irritation, presence instead of control.
This is about self-trust in real time. About learning the difference between honoring an emotion and letting it run your life. About recognizing when overwhelm isn’t life being too much — it’s you not being clear enough. And about the quiet power of creating space so you can actually receive what you say you want..
EP 360: Why Letting Go Feels So Hard (Even When You’re Ready).
This episode is about self-trust in real time. About learning the difference between honoring an emotion and letting it run your life. About recognizing when overwhelm isn’t life being too much — it’s you not being clear enough. And about the quiet power of creating space so you can actually receive what you say you want.
EP 354: 2026 - Your Bravest Year Ever.
This is a powerful compilation episode pulling together some of the most resonant moments from past conversations on courage, self-trust, and choosing yourself—again and again.
This episode is a reminder that courage isn’t a personality trait or a feeling you wait for. It’s a decision. A choice you make when you stop living to avoid loss and start living to win. Across these hand-selected moments, I speak to what it actually means to trust yourself, take risks without recklessness, and step into life knowing you might get hurt—and choosing to show up anyway.
EP 353: Mind Pump: Why Men Need Brotherhood More Than Ever
In this very close to my heart (read the story behind it HERE) episode of The Roxanne Show, I sit down with the team behind Mind Pump Media—Sal Di Stefano, Adam Schafer, and Justin Andrews for a candid conversation on brotherhood, authenticity, and long-term growth.
We talk about what it really takes to build something that lasts, both in business and in relationships, and why integrity has always been their north star.
EP 346: How to Be More Stoic Under Pressure.
I say your emotions aren’t your enemy—they’re data. They’re messages from your body + your soul, guiding you toward your truth. This episode is your framework for learning how to feel it all without losing yourSELF in the process.
Through my 5-step Emotional Agility Framework, we dive into the art of self-awareness, emotional discipline + integration—because emotional mastery isn’t about perfection, it’s about presence.
EP 340: Rich Diviney: How to Navigate Uncertainty Like A Navy Seal.
Roxanne Saffaie talks about navigating uncetainty, managing anxiety & the power of identity and self-perception in personal transformation with her guest author + navy seal Rich Diviney on The Roxanne Show.
EP. 335: How To Handle Hard Times In Life (With Self-respect and Resilience).
In this microsode from EP. 324 I’m taking you into the arena with me—blood, sweat + SOUL—showing you how to get back up when life knocks you the f*ck down.
KEY POINTS:
Vulnerability isn’t weakness—it’s your access point to real strength.
Your morning routine is your launchpad for energy, focus + getting sh*t DONE.
Self-awareness is the sharp edge that cuts through negativity.
Perimenopause, challenges, pressure—it’s all part of the training ground for your next level.
The second you stop comparing yourSELF to others, your worth becomes unbreakable. If you’re ready to stop negotiating with your greatness and start leading yourself like you mean it—this episode is your ignition.
EP. 334: How To Become More Resilient And Harness The Power Of Self-Compassion.
Excellence isn’t a finish line. It’s a standard you decide to live by.
In this solo episode, I’m getting into what it really means to go all in—not just in one area, but in how you show up everywhere.
I share the mindset that shaped me—from my early days as an athlete to what I’ve learned walking alongside my best friend, 3x Olympic Gold Medalist Kerri Walsh Jennings.
These are the inner codes that build real confidence, Self-trust, and power that doesn't break.